I am in dilemma i (M23) in confusion state with my crush (F24) , don't know what to do ?
my crush , she belongs to our building but different company she suddenly resigned from her company . I liked her very much , she is only crush till day i made a move got her no used to text frequently i was helping her with job aswell . Then she got job in other city . Our conversations was going fine after that even we used call each other . She used speak lot compared to me
Initially my friend who is mutual to her he knows her very well said many things about her don't go madly behind her she is not worth and good . I didn't care his words and i continued cuz for me she looks different from others . I only cared about present i don't want her past and all
In our chats i noticed she lied to me but i didn't care as initially no one dared to speak truth with others .
When i was in her city we went to dinner date , so that week goes smoothly . After a week i noticed she ignored me so i thought she is not interested okay that fine no issues . But she again started texting said she was busy that week .
So i take it as cool , later she did similarly ignoring me for a week and then again texting nicely with me .
I was like addicted to her messages, i gave my attention to her . I used care her much but for her me is nothing .
She used to do same ignoring me for a week and again texting me nicely. So i saw this pattern , i am loosing mental peace .
I should have listened to my frnd word Then decided to stay away from all the social media cuz i used to check her ( personally i felt bad about this ) .
Due to this i lost mental peace i start doubting myself so many negative thoughts come my mind
Recently again she starts texting me for a week and ignoring me for a week i didn't gave her much attention. I ignored her and she ignored me but I have feelings for her thought of confessing my feelings because she is reason for my first date , first phone call talks that too more than 30min